my friend called me today to tell me that he got a blood test in regards to his paternity of his daughter. 6 and a half year old daughter, sweet, loves him, and only knows him as her father. but the blood test failed them both. he knows that his daughter isnt by blood his. i have imagined before the feelings that would come with a situation like this, and can only say better him than me. i think its the saddest thing ive heard in a long time. from what he told me, the mother had basically convinced herself that he was the real father. who would want to believe that they cheated om their man and got pregnant. its such a horrible thing that the mind has to find a way out of what it has become. a mind does not want to believe that its the miind of a monster. when she was first pregnant, he said he waanted a blood test, she went into a crying fit about trust, and love, and how could he think that. so he buckled and didnt pursue it....i guess by not following through he was giving the ultimate "i trust you" he was wrong, so wrong in fact that his trust of people has been shattered. he cant turn on his daughter ....because she is his daughter. i can only imagine once something like that happens, how a man must feel. i hope hes ok. hes a really good guy